The Wounded Wisdom of Midlife Women

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You get to a certain age where your wounds and wisdom outweigh the perky girlish wannabe try-hard charm.

You have lost more than you have.

You may have even let go of the ambition and the need to please.

You are stronger in the broken places. No more effs given!!
HOWEVER you may not see the ✨GOLD✨ in this midlife phase of life.

Feeling burnt out, not good enough. Unattractive.

You may have succumbed to ‘comparisonitis’.

Not realising you are stronger in the broken places.

Not realising you are a Sage in training, a Witch awaiting her Wisdom Wand, a Maven graduating to Mastery/Misstry.

Midlife is when we look back wondering if we failed.

For women it isn’t fast cars and toy boys (not usually anyway), it can be a silent, simmering sadness and hopelessness, wondering if Life is over, a blindness to our deeper beauty and the wisdom woven into our wounds.

It can be a wondering if we’ll ever truly be happy or ‘find ourselves’.
With a little help you can see you are unravelling, awakening, transforming and becoming.

Becoming all you were always meant to be and instead of the try-hard, accumulation years of youth it is about shedding, surrendering, humility, fierce wisdom and boldly being and loving all that you truly are.

I’m right there with you my lovelies!

K x

 

See: TAROT READINGS for Midlife Women

 

NEW! Transformational Tarot for Awakening Women

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It’s taken me 40 years to realise what was right under my pig-headed Taurean nose! I grew up watching my Grand-Nan coach my Mum in reading Tarot and Tea Leaves. 

 

I was 5 when I brewed my first Witches ‘brew’ for my Mum’s Tea Leaf Readings, and her Tarot cards were regularly all over the dinner table!

 

I resisted the cards myself. Oh I made a right meal of resisting them! Even when I reached the heady heights of an Intuitive and Spiritual Guide to awakening women all over the world, I resisted Tarot. Even though I knew the cards so well I resisted. Even though it’s in my ancient bloodline I resisted!! I have to say that I can only see this in hindsight. I didn’t know at the time! 

 

Q: Why do I think I resisted?

A: The Witch Wound!

 
Mum was terrified of her own gifts. She’d been ridiculed and beaten for them in this lifetime and no doubt persecuted and/or executed in previous ones. She handed the fear onto me and strongly discouraged me. 
 


Well, no more. I surrender! 

 

I whole-heartedly surrender. (My brother presenting me with our late Mum’s original cards confirmed it!).

 

And of course the moment you do let go the floodgates open and magic happens. Everything comes together. Doors open. Ideas and intuition flows. And new beginnings await…

 

Transformational Tarot for Awakening Women – Readings available from today!

 

K💗

 

 

What is the WITCH WOUND?

 

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(Little pink broomstick – A gift from my friend Emma and her Il Camino pilgrimage)

 

Do you find yourself hiding your oracle card decks when your Mother visits?

Are you silent about your spiritual beliefs around your Church friends?

Do you go through waves of panic and fear just thinking about stepping out of the Spiritual Closet and doing the healing/intuitive/psychic/spiritual work you’ve always wanted to do?

Have you realised that your mental and physical health suffers when you suppress your true self, intuitive/healing gifts and abilities?

If you answered YUP! then you’re probably experiencing what I describe as the ‘Witch Wound’.

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I’VE GOT A HUSTLE HANGOVER!

 

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*Buttons pushed. Passion rising. Rant alert!*

I’VE GOT A HUSTLE HANGOVER – I’M SO MIFFED WITH THE PUSHY, SUPERFICIAL, PATRIARCHAL BUSINESS PARADIGM! ENOUGH ALREADY!

I’m saying this AGAIN because I can also see this bubbling up for many of my friends and it needs voicing over and over:

It isn’t just about WHAT you’re selling folks! It’s about HOW you do it!

Back in 1999 I was blessed to be part of a leading edge creative/intuitive development team birthing a new paradigm of ‘Spirituality in Business’. We made great strides. And then along came the new online business models of the coaching and information business and the so-called spiritual online businesses and we’re back to the start again…….integrity and humanity out of the window. Lip service, egos and ‘Mean Girls’ style back-scratching cliques, false idols and patriarchy dressed up as something else

It’s time to call it.

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Were you killed for being a Witch in a past life?

 

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NO matter what your beliefs are around past lives, many women as they awaken start to experience flashbacks, fears and visions that make no sense. Women who have never even vaguely been interested in Wicca or Witchcraft start having ‘memories’ bubble up about meeting a messy end as a Witch.

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Is putting everyone else first costing you your power, your dreams and your happiness?

 

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Wow. Something powerful is stirring. Can you feel it? Me and the women around me are really being called powerfully now to set clear boundaries, ask for what we want, declare our intuitive truths and find a way to serve others at the same time as serving ourselves.

 

I’m seeing it everywhere. My own personal shift reflected externally perhaps? Or simply a collective shift I’m aware of. I’m attuned to the collective energies and shifts of our sisterhood and am often the voice of them. I know that now. And so here is the latest….

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Leaping from the safety of a miserable job to the uncertainty of feminine flow and freedom

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Every morning when I got up to go to a job I didn’t enjoy or to work for someone else, I had a gnawing feeling in my gut, I’m grateful to have worked in over 20 different businesses at various levels for 20 years before I made the leap to work for myself. I got loads of valuable experience and training, BUT it was a close call.

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How I went from PAIN to PURPOSE

 

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If you’ve been to hell and back in your life (and let’s face it if you’ve been drawn to me and my message you probably have been) then you’ll know there can be a lot of healing to do.

 

However, if you’re not careful you can get stuck in all the healing and processing and before you know it you’re in danger of slipping into victimhood territory.

 

The sad thing about that is you miss the GOLD that those challenges are destined to alchemically transform into given the right conditions.

 

That GOLD is your true purpose.

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EMPATHS are the pioneers of peace

 

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One of my recent social media posts really resonated with a lot of you on Instagram and Facebook this week and I’d love to know what you think and feel about this topic.

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WOMEN + WEALTH: Healing the Witch Wound

 

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There are many reasons why women hold themselves back from stepping into their full potential but as Venus goes into retrograde let’s look at one of the biggies.

As a woman starts to awaken and her consciousness expands she begins to tap into the collective experience and shared ‘pain body’ of woman.

Every month with our cycle we tap even deeper into that shared sisterhood experience.

As her passion and purpose begin to stir within her she faces the dark places that hold us all back.

One of which is the fear of what happens when an awakened woman decides to “put her head above the parapet” and dare to be seen.

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