The Wounded Wisdom of Midlife Women

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You get to a certain age where your wounds and wisdom outweigh the perky girlish wannabe try-hard charm.

You have lost more than you have.

You may have even let go of the ambition and the need to please.

You are stronger in the broken places. No more effs given!!
HOWEVER you may not see the ✨GOLD✨ in this midlife phase of life.

Feeling burnt out, not good enough. Unattractive.

You may have succumbed to ‘comparisonitis’.

Not realising you are stronger in the broken places.

Not realising you are a Sage in training, a Witch awaiting her Wisdom Wand, a Maven graduating to Mastery/Misstry.

Midlife is when we look back wondering if we failed.

For women it isn’t fast cars and toy boys (not usually anyway), it can be a silent, simmering sadness and hopelessness, wondering if Life is over, a blindness to our deeper beauty and the wisdom woven into our wounds.

It can be a wondering if we’ll ever truly be happy or ‘find ourselves’.
With a little help you can see you are unravelling, awakening, transforming and becoming.

Becoming all you were always meant to be and instead of the try-hard, accumulation years of youth it is about shedding, surrendering, humility, fierce wisdom and boldly being and loving all that you truly are.

I’m right there with you my lovelies!

K x

 

See: TAROT READINGS for Midlife Women

 

[MEDITATION] PAUSE FOR PEACE – Peace worldwide starts from inside

 

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UPDATE 22nd March 2016: Thinking of those in Turkey and Brussels affected by more recent attacks.

The recent events in Paris have shaken the world. The sad fact is that awful attacks such as this are happening all over the world and are not always reported. There were 21 terrorist attacks in November 2015 alone.

My heart aches. As an Empath, Clairsentient, HSP, INFP etc I feel these things so deeply, as I know many of you do. It’s OK to feel our own sadness and rage about such events but try not to take on the pain of others my friends. Look after yourselves. Breathe. Take salt baths. Burn incense. Cry and rage. Hug a loved one and breathe again.

We are not helpless. We can make a difference. Sure there are charities we can support like the Red Cross or peace organisations we can be part of. Physical action is needed. However, for those of us who are intuitive, who are Earth Angels, Lightworkers, healers, creatives and change-agents, we know there is also another way to create transformation.

And that is to embrace our feminine power (in men and women) and to access our ability to create change from the INSIDE-OUT.

 

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Is putting everyone else first costing you your power, your dreams and your happiness?

 

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Wow. Something powerful is stirring. Can you feel it? Me and the women around me are really being called powerfully now to set clear boundaries, ask for what we want, declare our intuitive truths and find a way to serve others at the same time as serving ourselves.

 

I’m seeing it everywhere. My own personal shift reflected externally perhaps? Or simply a collective shift I’m aware of. I’m attuned to the collective energies and shifts of our sisterhood and am often the voice of them. I know that now. And so here is the latest….

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The day I jumped off the cliff

 

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I was terrified. My gut was in knots. A friend had pushed me off the ledge and suggested I rent a room at a doctor-run complimentary clinic in town. But how could I? I knew my dream was to work for myself in some way that would heal and empower women but I wasn’t ready.

Or was I?
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How I went from PAIN to PURPOSE

 

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If you’ve been to hell and back in your life (and let’s face it if you’ve been drawn to me and my message you probably have been) then you’ll know there can be a lot of healing to do.

 

However, if you’re not careful you can get stuck in all the healing and processing and before you know it you’re in danger of slipping into victimhood territory.

 

The sad thing about that is you miss the GOLD that those challenges are destined to alchemically transform into given the right conditions.

 

That GOLD is your true purpose.

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WOMEN + WEALTH: Healing the Witch Wound

 

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There are many reasons why women hold themselves back from stepping into their full potential but as Venus goes into retrograde let’s look at one of the biggies.

As a woman starts to awaken and her consciousness expands she begins to tap into the collective experience and shared ‘pain body’ of woman.

Every month with our cycle we tap even deeper into that shared sisterhood experience.

As her passion and purpose begin to stir within her she faces the dark places that hold us all back.

One of which is the fear of what happens when an awakened woman decides to “put her head above the parapet” and dare to be seen.

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SENSITIVES: 9 Tips to help you handle overwhelm in social situations

 

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I’ve been hearing a similar question over and over from my clients lately about how they feel as sensitives and empaths when in overwhelming social situations……

“As empaths we are constantly questioning ourselves, assuming we are at fault or are the only ones feeling bad in a social situation. How do we know which part of ourselves to listen to? Our heads and logic trying to make sense of things or how we feel?”

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11 Transformational Tips for over-giving, people-pleasing Empaths

 

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Do you give too much? Is it always you that makes the effort?

 

We loving, caring, sensitive souls can end up giving our power away and falling into the trap of over-giving. But why?

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What is your Soul Purpose?

 

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“What’s my Soul Purpose?”

It’s the question I’ve heard most often these past 17 years. We all want a clear answer, a job description, something the ego can grab hold of and run with, something the mind can make sense of.

Your Soul Purpose or path cannot be summed up in a clever 3 step process or ‘elevator pitch’. That’s the ego needing certainties. Soul doesn’t deal in certainties.

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6 EMPATH ENERGY TOOLS: Reclaim your power and feel like you again

 

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When we are highly sensitive, empathic and intuitive or are navigating the inner shifts of awakening, we can become very impressionable and easily lose ourselves.

Other people and their opinions and realities can draw us in, causing us to drift away from our own truth. Social media can fill our energy fields with multiple viewpoints and energy deposits every day. Plus we tend to be more open to other realms and spirits and the collective experience and so can forget who we are.

This isn’t because we are weak souls, not by any means, our sensitivity is our strength, however, as Empaths we take on the thoughts and feelings of others every day and they can cloud our own reality and make us scattered, fragmented and ungrounded.

This can cause us to lose our energy and power without even knowing it’s happening.

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