You get to a certain age where your wounds and wisdom outweigh the perky girlish wannabe try-hard charm.
You have lost more than you have.
You may have even let go of the ambition and the need to please.
You are stronger in the broken places. No more effs given!!
HOWEVER you may not see the GOLD in this midlife phase of life.
Feeling burnt out, not good enough. Unattractive.
You may have succumbed to ‘comparisonitis’.
Not realising you are stronger in the broken places.
Not realising you are a Sage in training, a Witch awaiting her Wisdom Wand, a Maven graduating to Mastery/Misstry.
Midlife is when we look back wondering if we failed.
For women it isn’t fast cars and toy boys (not usually anyway), it can be a silent, simmering sadness and hopelessness, wondering if Life is over, a blindness to our deeper beauty and the wisdom woven into our wounds.
It can be a wondering if we’ll ever truly be happy or ‘find ourselves’.
With a little help you can see you are unravelling, awakening, transforming and becoming.
Becoming all you were always meant to be and instead of the try-hard, accumulation years of youth it is about shedding, surrendering, humility, fierce wisdom and boldly being and loving all that you truly are.
I’m right there with you my lovelies!